“STRESS” is a much easier word to say than it is to define.  There are different types, varying degrees, and many many different reasons and explanations behind it.  However, its part of daily life ... and like many other things in life, it needs to be managed.

In this post, I’m just going to talk about two types of stress-trigger.  These are two key triggers that I look for in my work as a therapist, helping people to manage their stress.  I call them the Sledgehammer and The Drip-Drip.  Read on and you'll understand why!

When a person can identify and understand their specific, key stressors, this gives them a higher level of self-awareness and understanding on all levels; mental, emotional, physical, spiritual .. and environmentally too.  I believe this is the first step to feeling more empowered and  becoming much calmer and relaxed about life, its challenges, and its opportunities.


What is stress?

Stress comes from the pressures that we feel in life, and how we react to them. It is quite normal to feel anxious and become stressed when facing something that upsets the normal balance of day to day life. 

When we feel healthy and happy, and our life force energy is strong and vibrant, our resilience to stress is much higher than after we’ve been ill, for example, or if we’ve experienced a series of stressful events close together that have had a knock-on effect and deteriorated our energy and vitality.

Our thought patterns, perceptions and life experiences also shape our responses to stressful situations.  People who tend to think negatively are often more prone to suffering from stress than people who have a sunnier outlook.  But all of us experience stress.  It’s a part of life.


So how  stressed are you?

Here is a short list of some symptoms you might experience when you are  stressed for any length of time.

  • Obsessive thinking
  • Behaviour changes  - aggression, withdrawal
  • Digestive upsets – bloating, constipation, diarrhoea
  • Headaches, impaired memory
  • Muscular tension and pain, neck shoulder and low back pain,cramps, muscle spasms
  • Palpitations, chest pain, high blood pressure
  • Anxiety, loss of humour, depression, negative thoughts,
  • Inability to concentrate and difficulty making decisions
  • Weaker immune system and being more susceptible to illness

If symptoms are present,  I will always ask you when they first started as this information is very meaningful and relevant in identifying your key stress triggers. 


So what might a key stress trigger be for you?

  • The Sledgehammer Trigger:-  this is a stress trigger that comes completely out of the blue at you and hits you hard, like a sledgehammer.  It is unexpected, dramatic, leave you feeling isolated, with no strategy to deal with.  In that moment, your brain takes a full snapshot of the entire event as you see it, and your “fight or flight” response is triggered.  Now you are STRESSED.  Examples:  a scary medical diagnosis,  a sudden redundancy notice, something someone said that hurt or shocked you.
  • The  Drip-Drip-Reminder Trigger:-  this is a stress trigger that happens any time you get a conscious OR subconscious REMINDER of your Sledge-hammer trigger .  Remember, your brain took a snapshot of that entire event and recorded everything you noticed in that one dramatic moment.  So when anything comes up to remind you of that situation, through your own  thoughts, environment, or  situations that make you feel angry, nervous, frustrated, or anxious, your fight or flight response gets triggered.    For example: seeing a doctor in a white coat reminds you of the doctor who gave you that scary diagnosis and trigger a mind-body stress response.   

You might not be consciously aware of what the trigger is.  You just might notice the symptoms or feel panicky and anxious.


So what can you do to help?

Lets not forget that your body’s response to stress is part of an intelligent, highly sophisticated process designed to keep you safe from danger.   If our primitive cave-dwelling ancestors had not been so equipped, then would they have survived at all, and would we be here to tell their tale?

And  stress – like many other things in our lives – has to be managed.  To do this effectively, we need  to understand what makes us stressed, learn alternative ways to deal with it, and support our selves in the healing and recovery process on 6 levels; mental, physical, emotional, spiritual,  social and environmental.    Of all these areas, lets just take a look today at ways to support your body.  


Helping your body repair and rebalance

  • Nutrition - Poor diet can lower your resilience to stress  (e.g. low levels of Vit B12,  depleted Magnesium levels).  Book a consultation a Naturopathic Nutritionist for expert advice (Highly recommended Helen Duffy at  NorthStar Nutrition, Derbyshire, UK)
  • Medication- Be aware that certain drugs can contribute to symptoms of stress and anxiety, including caffeine, nicotine, cold remedies, thyroid medications.  You may be able to explore more natural alternatives. 
  • Exercise – Even 20 minutes brisk walking a day can make a difference. It’s an instant calm-me-down when you’re feeling tense, and boosts the body’s feel-good chemicals.  Walk, swim, do sport,  cycle, dance.  Whatever you can manage.  As often as you can.
  • Sleepbetween the hours of approx  8 pm and 8 am your body is busy repairing, renewing and rebalancing itself.  This is why symptoms can sometimes feel stronger at night.  So give yourself plenty of rest.  If you feel tired, listen to your body and try to rest.  If you are not sleeping well,  contact me for my free Deep Sleep information sheet for more practical tips on this subject.
  • Therapies-alternative and complementary therapies are wonderful for relaxation and rebalancing on all levels of being.  Try massage therapy, Indian Head Massage, reflexology, Hopi Ear Candles.   Talk therapies such as EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and Hypnotherapy are also wonderful approaches to support you in making positive life changes and developing  greater  mental resilience.  Your local Natural Health or Holistic Centre will be able to advise.
  • Relaxation – set aside some quality Me Time atleast once a week, if not on a daily basis (soak in the bath, reading a book, a country walk etc).   Meditation and Mindfulness techniques can help too.  Hop onto google and find out what's available in your area.

If you are experiencing stress-related symptoms, and would like to learn more about  identifying and managing  your key stressors,  I’d be delighted to hear from you.

My 6-part Stress Management Programe is available at treatment rooms in Heanor, Derby and Uttoxeter. 

If you are further afield, I'm still available to work with you online via Skype.

So please don't stay stressed any longer.  Book a FREE no-obligation consultation and I'll be delighted to hear from you.

Contact Eileen Strong   

 Tel/ Text 07745 409059


Posted on 04 Jun 2017 by Eileen Strong

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